Narcissists and Codependents Are Similar, But Differ

Narcissists are codependent, too. Their self-esteem is externally based on what others think. They suffer without validation (their narcissistic supplies) due to their internal shame. Their need is so great, like codependents, they can be driven to obsession and compulsive behavior.

The main difference is that narcissists seek power to feel safe, whereas codependents seek…