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Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Narcissists’ and abusers’ main defense is projection. Understanding it and learning to confront empowers you and protects your self-esteem.

Oct 21, 2019

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Oct 21, 2019

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The Most Common Trauma You Don’t Know About

Relational trauma can be harder to detect and has more side effects in adulthood than physical abuse. However, many people believe they…

Oct 13

The Most Common Trauma You Don’t Know About

Oct 13

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The Hidden Trauma of Triangulation

The trauma of triangulation can go unnoticed but can cause lasting damage and codependency. Read the signs and symptoms and how to heal.

Sep 9

The Hidden Trauma of Triangulation

Sep 9

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Communicating with Someone Who Lacks Cognitive or Emotional Empathy

Learn how to best communicate with someone who lacks emotional or cognitive empathy, and how to improve your own empathy.

Aug 9

Communicating with Someone Who Lacks Cognitive or Emotional Empathy

Aug 9

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How to Tell the Difference between Types of Empathy and Their Hidden Dangers

Empathy is essential for healthy relationships. Learn the types of empathy and danagers to help protect you and improve communication

Aug 3

How to Tell the Difference between Types of Empathy and Their Hidden Dangers

Aug 3

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Soul Development through Relationships

Through divine alchemy, relationships offer a path to free our soul emotional trauma that has blocked it from the wholeness it seeks.

Jul 9

Soul Development through Relationships

Jul 9

The Trauma of Invisibility

The childhood trauma of being unseen underlies both shame and codependency. It can cause problems in relationships, yet is often unnoticed

Jun 9

The Trauma of Invisibility

Jun 9

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Trauma Recovery: A Blueprint and Strategies

trauma is held in the body, and our body needs to heal as well as our mind and heart.Be patient, and follow these 10 steps to recovery.

May 10

Trauma Recovery: A Blueprint and Strategies

May 10

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Natural Trauma Healing

We’re now more aware of trauma, but have become disconnected from our bodies’ innate knowledge of natural trauma healing we can practice.

May 6

Natural Trauma Healing

May 6

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Coping with Change in Growth and Recovery

Letting go of “the devil we know” to change in recovery means relinquishing control, facing the unknown, and trusting we’ll be okay. We can.

Apr 3

Coping with Change in Growth and Recovery

Apr 3

Darlene Lancer

Darlene Lancer

Therapist-Author of “Codependency for Dummies,” relationship expert. Get a FREE 14 Tips on Letting Go http://bit.ly/MN2jSG. Join me on FB http://on.fb.me/WnMQMH

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