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Darlene LancerinRelationships 101Hidden Truth About Codependent RelationshipsThere’s a saying, “The ending is in the beginning.” Codependent relationship problems start with their low self-esteem, lack of boundaries…Sep 36Sep 36
Darlene LancerinRelationships 101How to Set Polite BoundariesLove won’t last without personal boundaries. There’s an art to setting boundaries. If done in anger, complaining,or nagging, they don’t workAug 28Aug 28
Darlene LancerinPoems, Revelation, and MusingsMother WoundsMother is our first love, from her mother’s mother’s belly, Trauma breathed through generations long before our birth shapes our worth.Aug 102Aug 102
Darlene LancerinNarcissism and Abusive RelationshipsSpotting Covert Female NarcissismLearn why female narcissists and psychopaths can be harder to spot, what to look for, and why they act the way they do.Aug 24Aug 24
Darlene LancerinPoems, Revelation, and MusingsMental ChessWho sets the rules in your relationship? What happens when you change the rules…if you dare?Jul 28Jul 28
Darlene LancerinNarcissism and Abusive RelationshipsThe Stages of Narcissistic RelationshipsNarcissistic relationships go through a painful cycle that is a predictable result of narcissistic personality disorder. Spot them to heal.Jul 211Jul 211
Darlene LancerinRelationships 101Regretting RegretsThoughts about grieving, letting go, and moving onJul 18Jul 18
Darlene LancerinRelationships 101The Downside of Assuming ResponsibilityBeing over-responsible may be a sign of codependency. Over-responsible people enjoy their role but can become judgmental and resentfulJul 9Jul 9
Darlene LancerinRelationships 101The Signs and Effect of Emotional IncestEmotional incest has been compared to actual incest since it similarly creates long-lasting effects on mental health and adult relationshpJul 37Jul 37