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Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Narcissists’ and abusers’ main defense is projection. Understanding it and learning to confront empowers you and protects your self-esteem.

Oct 21, 2019

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Oct 21, 2019

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Relationships 101

Ways to Celebrate Christmas

Christmas is about more than gift-giving and family gatherings. It’s a time of holiness and reverence that encourages a spirit of loving…

6d ago

Ways to Celebrate Christmas

6d ago

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Relationships 101

9 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Stress

The stress of the holidays can trigger sadness and depression for many people. They’re especially hard because there’s an expectation of joy

Dec 21

9 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Stress

Dec 21

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Poems, Revelation, and Musings

Growth and Healing in Recovery

Healing isn’t linear but is an obscure soul odyssey. Explore insightful poems and essays that provide solace, encouragement, and inspiration

Dec 15

Growth and Healing in Recovery

Dec 15

How Faith Promotes Change

Faith helps us let go, trust and risk. Meditation and prayer promote faith and connect us to a source of true strength and loosen self-will.

Dec 3

How Faith Promotes Change

Dec 3

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Relationships 101

Transformative Relationships

Progressing from romance to real love is work. Healing in relationships by mastering love’s challenges deepens love for yourself and…

Nov 3

Transformative Relationships

Nov 3

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Becoming You

Coping with Sadness and Depression

When reality doesn’t match our desires and coping mechanisms fail us, life presents painful lessons that may lead to depression and despair.

Oct 8

Coping with Sadness and Depression

Oct 8

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Relationships 101

Hidden Truth About Codependent Relationships

There’s a saying, “The ending is in the beginning.” Codependent relationship problems start with their low self-esteem, lack of boundaries…

Sep 3

Hidden Truth About Codependent Relationships

Sep 3

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Relationships 101

How to Set Polite Boundaries

Love won’t last without personal boundaries. There’s an art to setting boundaries. If done in anger, complaining,or nagging, they don’t work

Aug 28

How to Set Polite Boundaries

Aug 28

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Poems, Revelation, and Musings

Mother Wounds

Mother is our first love, from her mother’s mother’s belly, Trauma breathed through generations long before our birth shapes our worth.

Aug 10

Mother Wounds

Aug 10

Darlene Lancer

Darlene Lancer

Therapist-Author of “Codependency for Dummies,” relationship expert. Get a FREE 14 Tips on Letting Go http://bit.ly/MN2jSG. Join me on FB http://on.fb.me/WnMQMH

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