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Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Narcissists’ and abusers’ main defense is projection. Understanding it and learning to confront empowers you and protects your self-esteem.

Oct 21, 2019

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Oct 21, 2019

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Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

Do You Attract Narcissists?

You may not realize you’re a narcissist attractor if you have had a relationship with a narcissist. Learn why and how to avoid it.

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Do You Attract Narcissists?

6h ago

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Becoming You

Self-Love and Healing

We’re tempted to look outside ourselves for someone to take away our pain, but healing involves self-love and changing from the inside out.

Feb 13

Self-Love and Healing

Feb 13

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Becoming You

What Is Generational Trauma

Generational trauma is trauma passed down to future generations who didn’t experience the original event. Learn the cause and symptoms.

Jan 4

What Is Generational Trauma

Jan 4

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Relationships 101

Ways to Celebrate Christmas

Christmas is about more than gift-giving and family gatherings. It’s a time of holiness and reverence that encourages a spirit of loving…

Dec 24, 2024

Ways to Celebrate Christmas

Dec 24, 2024

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Relationships 101

9 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Stress

The stress of the holidays can trigger sadness and depression for many people. They’re especially hard because there’s an expectation of joy

Dec 21, 2024

9 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Stress

Dec 21, 2024

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Poems, Revelation, and Musings

Growth and Healing in Recovery

Healing isn’t linear but is an obscure soul odyssey. Explore insightful poems and essays that provide solace, encouragement, and inspiration

Dec 15, 2024

Growth and Healing in Recovery

Dec 15, 2024

How Faith Promotes Change

Faith helps us let go, trust and risk. Meditation and prayer promote faith and connect us to a source of true strength and loosen self-will.

Dec 3, 2024

How Faith Promotes Change

Dec 3, 2024

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Relationships 101

Transformative Relationships

Progressing from romance to real love is work. Healing in relationships by mastering love’s challenges deepens love for yourself and…

Nov 3, 2024

Transformative Relationships

Nov 3, 2024

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Becoming You

Coping with Sadness and Depression

When reality doesn’t match our desires and coping mechanisms fail us, life presents painful lessons that may lead to depression and despair.

Oct 8, 2024

Coping with Sadness and Depression

Oct 8, 2024

Darlene Lancer

Darlene Lancer

Therapist-Author of “Codependency for Dummies,” relationship expert. Get a FREE 14 Tips on Letting Go http://bit.ly/MN2jSG. Join me on FB http://on.fb.me/WnMQMH

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