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Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Narcissists’ and abusers’ main defense is projection. Understanding it and learning to confront empowers you and protects your self-esteem.

Oct 21, 2019

Disabling Abusers’ Favorite Weapon: Projection

Oct 21, 2019

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Relationships 101

Transformative Relationships

Progressing from romance to real love is work. Healing in relationships by mastering love’s challenges deepens love for yourself and…

3d ago

Transformative Relationships

3d ago

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Becoming You

Coping with Sadness and Depression

When reality doesn’t match our desires and coping mechanisms fail us, life presents painful lessons that may lead to depression and despair.

Oct 8

Coping with Sadness and Depression

Oct 8

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Relationships 101

Hidden Truth About Codependent Relationships

There’s a saying, “The ending is in the beginning.” Codependent relationship problems start with their low self-esteem, lack of boundaries…

Sep 3

Hidden Truth About Codependent Relationships

Sep 3

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Relationships 101

How to Set Polite Boundaries

Love won’t last without personal boundaries. There’s an art to setting boundaries. If done in anger, complaining,or nagging, they don’t work

Aug 28

How to Set Polite Boundaries

Aug 28

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Poems, Revelation, and Musings

Mother Wounds

Mother is our first love, from her mother’s mother’s belly, Trauma breathed through generations long before our birth shapes our worth.

Aug 10

Mother Wounds

Aug 10

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Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

Spotting Covert Female Narcissism

Learn why female narcissists and psychopaths can be harder to spot, what to look for, and why they act the way they do.

Aug 2

Spotting Covert Female Narcissism

Aug 2

Published in
Poems, Revelation, and Musings

Mental Chess

Who sets the rules in your relationship? What happens when you change the rules…if you dare?

Jul 28

Mental Chess

Jul 28

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Narcissism and Abusive Relationships

The Stages of Narcissistic Relationships

Narcissistic relationships go through a painful cycle that is a predictable result of narcissistic personality disorder. Spot them to heal.

Jul 21

The Stages of Narcissistic Relationships

Jul 21

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Relationships 101

Regretting Regrets

Thoughts about grieving, letting go, and moving on

Jul 18

Regretting Regrets

Jul 18

Darlene Lancer

Darlene Lancer

Therapist-Author of “Codependency for Dummies,” relationship expert. Get a FREE 14 Tips on Letting Go http://bit.ly/MN2jSG. Join me on FB http://on.fb.me/WnMQMH

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